Richard J. Carlson, 61, of Ironwood, died unexpectedly at his home on Friday, Dec. 3, 2010.      Born in Ironwood on Nov. 19, 1949, he was the son of the late John T. (Ted) Carlson and Mildred A. (Dolly) Carlson. Rick graduated from L.L. Wright High School and later attended Gogebic Community College and the University of Wisconsin-Green Bay. A tragic accident  in 1971 left Rick permanently disabled, a detail he chose to ignore. Rick was truly a special person, whose independence, strength, kindness, generosity and selflessness were traits loved and admired by all who knew him. He will be deeply missed.      Rick is survived by his brothers William (Susan) Carlson, Bellevue, Wash.; John (Shelley) Carlson, Washington, D.C.; Robert (Deb) Carlson, Appleton, Wis.; three nephews and many dear friends.      Cremation has taken place.      A memorial gathering will be held in Ironwood at the McKevitt-Patrick Funeral Home on Thursday, Dec. 9, from 3:00-5:00 p.m.      In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the charity of your choice.      Online condolences may be expressed to the family of Rick Carlson at mckevittpatrickfuneralhome.com.      Arrangements are entrusted to McKevitt-Patrick Funeral Home and Cremation Services of Ironwood.